This story was shared on whatsapp by a frequent forwarder friend, and it moved me. So sharing it here to put it out there in case it hasn't made it to the open web yet. I also noticed from this the sheer stubborn-ness of the man's folks - and the absolute wastedness of it all. Worth thinking: what can you do so that your children never treat their kids like this when they become grandparents; never get coercive like this? What can you do to ensure YOU don't become like this in your last years?
He was pruning the plants..sitting in the posh arbour of ******international school,heat and dust didn't seem to affect him.
"Ganga das,principal ma'am wants to see you right now"
The last two words of peon had lots of emphasis on them,trying to make it sound like an urgency .
He quickly got up,washed and wiped his hands and headed towards principal's room.
The walk from the garden to the office seemed never ending,his heart was almost jumping out of his chest..he was trying all the permutation n combination ,figuring out as to what has gone wrong that she wants to see him urgently...he was a sincere worker and never shirked away from his duties...
*knock knock*..." Madam,you called me?"
"Come inside..."an authoritative voice laced with crispness made him further nervous,
Salt n pepper hair,tied neatly in a french knot,a designer sari-sober and very classic,glasses resting on the bridge of her nose...
She pointed out towards a paper kept on the table...
B..but ma'am I am an illiterate person,I can not read English.
Ma'am please forgive me if I have done anything wrong...give me another chance ...I am forever indebted to you for allowing my daughter to study in this school ,free of cost...I could have never ever dreamt of such a life for my child....... And he broke down almost trembling,,
"Hold on,you assume a lot...we allowed your daughter because she is very bright and you have been our sincere worker..let me call a teacher in,she will read it out and translate it to you...this is written by your daughter and I want you to read this"
Soon enough the teacher was called and she started reading it,,,translating each line in Hindi...
"Today we are asked to write about Mother's Day ...
I belong to a village in Bihar ,a village where medical and education still seem like a far fetched dream.many women die every now and then while giving birth.My mother was one of the too,she could not even hold me in her arms.My father was the first person to hold me..or perhaps the only person.every one was sad..as I was a girl and I had "eaten up" my own mother.
My dad was instantly asked to remarry but he refused.my grandparents forced him by giving all logical,illogical and emotional reasons but he didn't budge.my grand parents wanted a grandson,they threatened him to remarry else he will be disowned...
He didn't think twice...he left everything,his acres of land..a good living,comfortable house,cattles and everything that counts for a good lifestyle in a village.
He came to this city with absolutely nothing but me in his arms.life was tough,he worked hard day and night..raised me with tender love and utmost care .
Now I understand why suddenly he developed a dislike for things that I would love to eat but there was only one left in the platter....he would say that he hates eating it and I would finish it considering that he does not like it....but as I grew older I realised the reason and what sacrifice is all about.
He gave me the best possible comforts beyond his capacity.
This school gave him a shelter,respect and the biggest gift-an admission to his daughter...
If love and care defines a mother...then my father fits in there ,
If compassion defines a mother,my father fits in well in that category too,,,
If sacrifice defines a mother,my father dominates that category .
So in nut shell..if a mother is made of love,care sacrifice and compassion...MY FATHER IS THE BEST MOTHER ON EARTH THEN.
On Mother's Day,I would like to wish my father for being the best parent on earth...I salute him and say it with pride that the hardworking gardener working in this school is my father.
I know I will fail this test after my teacher reads this but this would be a very small price one would pay towards an ode to the selfless love of my father.
This was a silence in the room...one could only hear soft sobbing of Ganga das....harsh sun could not wet his clothes with sweat but soft words of his daughter had soaked his chest with tears....he was standing there with hands folded..
He took the paper from teacher's hands...held it close to his heart and broke down.
Principal got up..offered him a chair,glass of water and said something.....strangely the crispness of her voice was taken over by warmth n sweetness....
"Ganga das..your daughter is given 10/10 marks for this essay...this is the best essay ever written about Mother's Day in the history of this school.we are having the Mother's Day gala event day after tomorrow and the school authority has decided to invite you as the chief guest...for the event...this is to honour all the love and sacrifice a man can do to raise his children...to show that you do not have to be a woman to be the perfect parent...n most importantly this is to reinforce/appreciate/acknowledge the strong belief of your daughter in you,,,to make her feel proud..to make the entire school feel proud that we have the best parent on earth as stated by your daughter..,,you are a true Gardner,,,who is not only looking after the garden but also nurturing the most precious flower of your life in such a beautiful way....
So Ganga das will you be our chief guest for the event?"
(Well, I know not many schools or people in today's scenario will show such a beautiful gesture....but this is my minuscule attempt in bringing out a difference/change ...and I will feel worth if this narrative could motivate even a single soul who is reading this.
"Khabar hai hamein bhi..
Samaj ki mitti main
Iss nayi soch ko ugne main
Waqt toh lagega abhi...
Par hum bhi ummed ka
Beej bone ki himmat rakhte hain" )